lundi 22 septembre 2014

By Karina Frost


Orthodox parents of all gay children tend to feel so isolated when it comes to this issue but this must not be the case. There should be a retreat for all of them to talk about their LGBT children. They must not feel secluded in the community because they are still part of it and their kids deserve the right treatment.

Dealing well with the gay children has to be done indeed in a good manner. The retreat must teach the parents the right method of dealing with the problems. Everything should be done in a good way to avoid making them worse. It is also right to introduce to them the gay Orthodox Jews book.

It will offer high chance to make them feel that they are not facing it alone and that hope is possible. The conference is also offered to fully ensure that everything will work out fine for them. The major reason why it is important is they will get the chance to talk about the problem.

It is also given for them to speak regarding the problems and to fully express their loneliness about that reality that not everyone in the community will accept the child as he is. Many of them fail to really discuss what it meant to have a gay kid especially to their friends, relatives and even church leaders.

As soon as he reveals the secret, the parent might take this as a very serious matter and hide it against the people. This is not advisable however for some reasons since it could go harder in the part of both the kid and the parent. It could affect the future of every child as well.

Hiding may be the result of how the Orthodox Jews see the world as well as the words of Torah. Everything must be well discussed therefore and it must begin by knowing what God really wants for the person. It is also good to understand every teaching and the words of faith to indicate what God really wants from the person.

Every discussion must be done really well to avoid series of complications as a result. The issues will be discussed based on what is being experienced by the person. Every issue may vary depending on the situation. Things have to be discussed well therefore to get rid of worse circumstances.

The Torah takes homosexuality as a sinful act punishable by death. A relationship between two men is considered as an abhorrent act that is punishable by death. This is why parents of those children are struck with a major combination of love or wanting to accept him for what he is and the need to really belong.

There is deep fear of being away or secluded to the community. It should be solved however to avoid feeling this way. Having a gay child is an issue that matters for them. They hide it mainly because they are afraid that people may judge or hurt the feelings of the kid. This has to be remedied as well in a perfect way to achieve good outcome.




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