Sometimes living feels like dying. It happens when everything around you is full of toxicity. You feel worthless if you keep on getting fired at any jobs you applied. You feel emotional pain when someone who you trusted very much suddenly betrays you. And you probably feel like dying when you lose someone very important to you. Those just fall on loneliness feeling and worse, it could lead to depression. Hope will still be there for you even after waking up from a morning of despair.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Not only losing someone can put you to despair. Even a society can kill you. One accidental mistake then everyone started to bully and discriminate you. That is what happening in reality now especially in social media. When the whole world started to hate you for just one mistake, probably you will totally shut down from your surroundings because of it.
When bad things happen to you, your life could not just remain stuck up with those things. You tend to grieve and then your family and friends try to help but you chose to push them away. They might not understand what you were going through but staying on that condition will not help.
Mostly others would tell you that distractions are effective so you may not think on your problems and be disheartened about it. However, that method is just like escaping from reality. You are not confronting your battle, making you just a coward. Stop pretending you actually are fine.
If your partner broke up with you and your heart ache so much, then feel the pain or perhaps let it out through crying. Accept the fact that you are hurt and do not hold back. Face it and switch your mindset saying you will be okay after this, not on giving up. Feeling it can really help but feeling it more by inflicting yourself with physical pain or doing drugs is not the proper and best thing to do.
Afterwards, you also have to stop and move forward. But that would really take time to happen. Just remember not to rush yourself on healing that wound. Like they said, time heals wounds. When you feel like you are not hurting anymore, that would be the moment for you to make decisions.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Not only losing someone can put you to despair. Even a society can kill you. One accidental mistake then everyone started to bully and discriminate you. That is what happening in reality now especially in social media. When the whole world started to hate you for just one mistake, probably you will totally shut down from your surroundings because of it.
When bad things happen to you, your life could not just remain stuck up with those things. You tend to grieve and then your family and friends try to help but you chose to push them away. They might not understand what you were going through but staying on that condition will not help.
Mostly others would tell you that distractions are effective so you may not think on your problems and be disheartened about it. However, that method is just like escaping from reality. You are not confronting your battle, making you just a coward. Stop pretending you actually are fine.
If your partner broke up with you and your heart ache so much, then feel the pain or perhaps let it out through crying. Accept the fact that you are hurt and do not hold back. Face it and switch your mindset saying you will be okay after this, not on giving up. Feeling it can really help but feeling it more by inflicting yourself with physical pain or doing drugs is not the proper and best thing to do.
Afterwards, you also have to stop and move forward. But that would really take time to happen. Just remember not to rush yourself on healing that wound. Like they said, time heals wounds. When you feel like you are not hurting anymore, that would be the moment for you to make decisions.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
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